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by on September 29, 2011 in Uncategorized

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Sally Minot Melville

Sally Minot Melville: A Woman of High Respect
by Bert Wingerson

“Sometime prior to 1792 Josiah [Melville], the first of the family in Cheshire county, came to Packersfield with his wife, Sarah (Minot) to whom he was married January 28, 1790.”

This entry in the Struthers History of Nelson is all we would know of Sarah (called Sally) Melville if not for the survival of two insightful reflections written after her death in 1811.  While the exploits of men in military and political history are more likely to be recorded, the life of most women, even a remarkable one like Sally, soon fade as the memories of those who knew her are extinguished.  Yet here was a woman who by her kindness, sensitivity to the needs of others and willingness to serve enriched both the life of her family and the early community of Packersfield as Nelson was then called.

One of the items among the Melville papers donated to the Nelson archives by Henry Melville Fuller (great great grandson of Sally) was a small booklet consisting of a few yellowed pages sewn together by hand. It was written as a eulogy by the Rev. Gad Newell after Sally’s death.  The other was a list of remembrances by Sally’s oldest son, Jonas, as he recalled his mother’s life.  He was only nineteen when she died.  Together they provide us a small window with which to view a life and a community.

The Rev. Gad Newell was installed as pastor of the Nelson Congregational Church in 1794 and served for 47 years.  While many members were added to the church during this period, Newell’s strict interpretation of scriptures and moral conduct led members to bring complaints against each other for supposed trespasses resulting in public hearings and sometimes excommunication if confessions and requests for forgiveness were not forthcoming from the accused.  Struthers states that a cloud of distrust among certain of its members hung over the congregation. Offenses included “not taking communion” and using “wicked expressions” while working on the highway.  Poor Mary Adams who had 11 young children plus the baby daughter of her dead sister to care for was also accused of using wicked expressions.  While she confessed that she was sometimes unstrung, and it would seem for very good reasons, that excuse was not considered satisfactory and she was barred from communion.

It might be inferred from this that the Rev. Gad Newell would find few in his congregation who could measure up to the standards he set, but Sally Melville won nothing but praise from him.  He writes, “Very few persons have maintained, in every respect, so irreproachable a character and been so much sincerely respected, by all classes, thro’ life.  The tongue of the slanderer could find nothing to gratify its malignance in her character.  Taken away in the midst of her days and usefulness, irreparable was her loss to the family; great to the poor and needy; and to society, and to the interest of religion. The sick and distressed in the neighborhood experienced her kind sympathy and assistance.”  Sally was a woman who worked at keeping the social fabric of her community in good repair.

Sally’s husband opened a large store at a site across the road from Henry Fuller’s house in about 1795 that, according to Struthers, attracted trade for miles around.  It is probable that Sally helped him in that business because Rev. Newell states that she was in a situation where she was well known and “she had the high respect of all that became acquainted with her.”  He praises her intelligence and quick sensibility, her industrious and prudent management and her husband’s trust in her as an endeared and affectionate companion.

He speaks of her dedication to her children as a “tender and discretely indulgent parent. She regarded with a very kind wakeful concern, the best interest of their bodies and souls; their happiness for time and eternity”  When she knew she had not long to live, she gathered her children around her “to give them her dying counsel. These affecting seasons can not, we trust, by the family be soon forgotten”  She and Josiah had four children, Jonas born in 1791, Lydia born in 1792, Josiah born in 1793 and Henry born in 1794.

It is in the recollections of Jonas that we learn of some of the more personal activities and personality of Sally as a mother and the manager of a household.  The opening pages written by Jonas begin with a family genealogy after which  he penned the following lines:

“My mother when I was small took me with her when she visited her father in Concord.

Mother took me with her and visited Amos Child in the fall and apples ripe.

My mother reproved me for making too much noise when I rode to Gad Newells.

My mother rode to Marlborough when my eyes were sore to see a doctor.  Nursed me for six months for sore eyes in the North room in the house and kept it dark.

My mother used the north east room in the house for to keep milk.

My mother occupied the North West room of the house for a sleeping room.

My mother was subject to fevers during her life time.

My mother used the South East room of the house for a parlor room and kept the clock and bureaus in it.

My mother used the South West room for spinning and weaving.

My mother took Sally Minot daughter of her brother after his death to bring up but died and left her with my father.

My mother never used a cooking stove.

My mother in the back small kitchen had a small room to keep cheese and a sink room with a door to each.

My mother used frequently to work with sick people.

My mother used frequently to have a psalm tune sung called Flanders.

My mother used to receive her father at Packersfield.

My mother used to assemble her children around her to say our prayers and every Sunday to say the catechism to her out of the Primmer.

My mother used to keep the milk in the cellar and skim it there.

My mother used to keep the clock in the south east room and the desk remained there as long as she lived.

My mother used to receive long visits from her cousins.

My mother used to cut brown bread into milk and boil the milk and bread for the childrens breakfast.

My mother used to make a toast of bread and butter and water as one she liked best.

My mother used not to eat salt fat pork.

1811.  My mothers last work was to skim the milk in the cellar and have me bring the milk up stairs for to make cheese.

1811.  My mother in June taken sick and the remainder of her life occupied the North East room below where she died.

1811.  Before she lost her reason called my father. myself, Lydia, Josiah and Henry and gave each of us her advise and her blessing while she lay in her last sickness and we all were near her bed.

1811.7.30  Died aged 48 years 5 months 16 days.

After the funeral of my mother, I walked onto the top of John Osgoods highest land on his farm.”

Sally set an example that Jonas followed all of his life.  He moved to Jaffrey in 1821 helping to organize the first bank in Jaffrey and became a respected banker.  Jonas was very active in the town and church affairs, a leader in the temperance movement and the first signer of the constitution of the Anti-slavery Society.  Jonas had a great business ability and became a wealthy man. As a strong supporter of education, he was the principal benefactor in establishing the Melville Academy and built a handsome residence known as the Stone House.  Both buildings are still standing today.

For all his wealth, the story is told that when he bought a new suit, he would hang it on the clothes line and beat it thoroughly so that it wouldn’t be noticed when he wore it to church not wanting to appear a cut above his neighbors.

Jonas, unfortunately, invested in the development of railroads which were never profitable and in the financial panic of 1857 both railroad and bank stocks became almost worthless. In an attempt to return as much as possible to his creditors, Jonas sold all his real estate, personal property and assets leaving him and his wife, Betsy, homeless.  They spent their remaining days with an old friend in Pepperell, Massachusetts.

This is the house built by Josiah and Sally Melville in 1795.  It was burned to the ground in an arson fire in 1925.  A new house was built by Henry Melville on the same site and is now home to Henry Melville Fuller.

December Scene

by on December 7, 2010 in Uncategorized

This ancient remains of a tree stands sentry over the new section of the Nelson Cemetery (across the street from the old section). As yet there are no occupants in this area.

Nelson Town Hall on a Winter’s Night

by on January 3, 2010 in Uncategorized

Photo by Michael Catanzaro

Keene High’s Class of 2009

by on June 27, 2009 in Uncategorized with 0 Comments

Six years ago the students below perched on the playground climbing structure to celebrate their graduation from Nelson School.

Nelson School 2003

Nelson School Sixth Grade 2003

Last week they, plus and minus a couple folks, graduated from Keene High School.  We offer our hearty congratulations and best wishes as they stride forth to the next phase of their lives!

Tyler Brnger

Tyler Brnger

Tyler Brnger, son of Debby and Peter Brnger, will be attending the Whittemore School of Business and Economics at UNH where he also plans to play football.

Abby Giffin

Abby Giffin

Abby Giffin, daughter of Jay and Sienna Giffin, will be taking business classes at River Valley Community College while she figures out what comes after that. Options under consideration include nursing or art school.

Heather Greathouse

Heather Greathouse

Heather Greathouse, daughter of Joe and Tina Greathouse, will attend the University of Kentucky where she has been awarded a Rifle team scholarship. Heather is nationally ranked in both air and small bore rifle.

Oliver Mednick

Oliver Mednick

Oliver Mednick, son of Betsy Street and Terry Mednick, will attend Wheaton College in Massachusetts where he plans to explore several fields before choosing a major.

David Meneses

David Meneses

David Meneses, son of Patricia and Mario Meneses, is applying to go on a two year mission for the Church of Jesus Christ Latter Day Saints. Upon his return he will be applying to colleges.

Alina Michelewicz

Alina Michelewicz

Alina Michelewicz, daughter of Caren Barrett and Gary Michelewicz, will be going to Hungary this summer, then working and saving money for either college or travel. Her first destination:  South America.

Chris Platt

Chris Platt

Chris Platt, son of Mike and Caroline Platt, will attend Mars Hill College in North Carolina where he plans to major in zoology.

Jackie Marinoff

Jackie Marinoff

Jackie Marinoff, daughter of Keith and Phyllis Marinoff, no longer lives in Nelson, but since she graduated from Nelson School we’ll still claim her.   She will be attending Brandeis University in Massachusetts.

Springing up, sliding down Monadnock

by on April 7, 2009 in Uncategorized with 0 Comments

The stunning view from Bald RockThe warm weather and abundant sun on Saturday, March 28 was the perfect impetus to get up and get out for the first hike of the spring. My wife Anne and I decided to head up Monadnock via Bald Rock, a path we had not yet taken. It was well worth it.

We checked in with the park to see what the conditions were up near the summit. We were informed that there was still some snow but it was mostly compressed and not too difficult to get through. In light of this, we both opted for leather boots instead of our preferred lighter (but more porous) hiking shoes. This proved to be a wise choice, although by the end of the day, our socks were rather soggy all the same.
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Town Meeting Wrap Up

by on March 11, 2009 in Uncategorized

Election Results for Selectman (the only contested race)gavel

Margaret Schillemat ~ 102

Dennis Dellagreca ~ 72

Click here to read the full account of Nelson’s Town Meeting at the Keene Sentinel.


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